So many people ask me: how can I stop being an introvert? What’s wrong with me? I want to be normal. Do you know how to stop being an introvert? Well I’m here to tell you. Don’t. Why would you? Being an introvert is not a flaw to be corrected; it’s a unique trait that brings its own set of strengths and advantages. In fact, there are countless reasons why embracing your introversion can lead to a more fulfilling and…
In a previous post, I talked about the best dogs for introverts. But what are the best pets for introverts, in general? Pets not only provide companionship but also offer unconditional love and support, making them ideal companions for introverts. Here, we explore some of the best pets for introverts, tailored to their unique needs and preferences. Cats: Independent Yet Affectionate Cats are often celebrated for their independent nature, making them excellent companions for introverts who value their personal space….
I know my blog is mostly about being introverted and being a parent. But depression and addiction are super common amongst us introverts, as well as the challenge of recovery. And it’s something we all need to normalize and talk about more. The relationship between depression and addiction is complex. And it can create a vicious cycle that’s challenging to break. While addiction can exacerbate symptoms of depression, depression, in turn, can fuel addictive behaviors. Making the journey to recovery…
Yeah, so what is one one of the best public speaking tips for introverts? Don’t do it! Just kidding. No matter who you are, or what your personality trait, public speaking can be unavoidable. I was thinking about this the other day, as I volunteer at my daughter’s school. My task, go figure, is a number caller at bingo once a month. At first glance, it might sound odd, but I actually CHOSE that job. Of all jobs available at…
While they possess deep love and dedication for their children, introverted parents have unique needs that must be met to maintain their well-being. Introvert recharge is a must, especially when it comes to parenting. Introverts make great parents. But understanding why it’s important for introverted parents to recharge is essential not only for their own sake, but also for the health and harmony of the entire family. Understanding Introversion Introversion isn’t just about shyness or social anxiety. It’s a fundamental…
Something I didn’t even realize until recently, is that a lot of people seem to think an introvert and a narcissist are the same thing. Or at least that a lot of introverts are narcissists. This actually angers me! I don’t consider myself a narcissist at all! But now, I’m starting to think. Do some people think of me as a narcissist? Could I actually be one? And why do people think we’re narcissists in the first place? Finally, are…
I honestly think that everyone could benefit from therapy. Whether you think you need it or not. Just to be able to talk to a professional about what’s on your mind is definitely self-care. And for us introverts, online therapy, vs in person, may create a perfect solution. In addition to costing way less than in person sessions, there are so many benefits to online therapy, vs in person, for anyone, even if you’re not an introvert. In fact, I…
This is hard. I know my anxiety is holding me back. My goal with this blog is to give advice or to present tips on how to overcome obstacles; whether it’s being an introvert or having anxiety, or parenting. Or a combination of any or all of the above. But I’m nowhere near where I want to be. I’ve written posts about imposter syndrome (which is very real and more common than you think). I struggle with it daily. I…
Small talk – those seemingly trivial exchanges that fill the gaps in social interactions. The introvert and small talk kind of mix like oil and water. For introverts, the prospect of engaging in small talk can often feel daunting, draining, or even unnecessary. Yet, in many situations, small talk serves as the lubricant that oils the wheels of social interaction, allowing us to connect with others in various settings. So, how can introverts navigate the terrain of small talk with…
In a world that always seems to celebrate extroverted qualities, Marti Olsen Laney’s book, “The Introvert Advantage” serves as a refreshing and insightful exploration of introversion. She sheds light on the unique strengths and attributes inherent in introverted individuals. Drawing from psychological research and personal anecdotes, Laney offers a comprehensive guide that not only celebrates introversion but also provides practical strategies for introverts to thrive in a predominantly extroverted society. This is a book I’ll be adding to my books…
